Health Care Representatives for Minor Children

It’s the stuff of parents’ worst anxieties when headed out of town for business or vacation, leaving their minor children at home in the care of a friend of family — their child is injured or becomes sick in their absence. Imagine, leaving with your spouse on a long-planned vacation, many states away or even out of country, leaving your children safely in the care of beloved grandparents. But, life happens, and one child breaks his arm at baseball practice, while you are thousands of miles away and cannot immediately return home. Grandma takes your son to the hospital, where all but necessary emergency treatment is denied because Grandma does not have legal authority to grant treatment on behalf of your minor child. You call the hospital in attempt to authorize treatment, but unfortunately, the hospital will not accept your verbal authorization, requiring a written authorization, properly executed and witnessed. After many phone calls, a faxed authorization form, and locating witnesses in your hotel lobby, hours after the accident you occurred, you finally get the documentation required by the hospital to proceed with treating your son. Unfortunately, I have heard first-hand stories of a real life occurrences of this very scenario.

This anxiety producing scenario can be avoided with advanced planning. Execute an Appointment of Health Care Representative for Minors, authorizing a trusted family member or care giver to make health care decisions in the event that you can not make these decisions for your minor child. I recommend that parents with minor children consider including preparation of an Appointment of Health Care Representative for Minors as part of their estate planning package.

My Child is 18 Years Old! Estate Planning for Young Adults

Having a child attain the age of 18 brings with it the legal age of majority and autonomy in her decisionmaking.  One aspect of this age of “adulthood” that may not be readily apparent to both the now-adult child and her parents is the immediate loss of the parents’ ability to serve as a decisionmaker.  Simply stated, as the “child” is now an adult, the young adults’ parents no longer have access to and ability to serve as a financial or medical decisionmaker for their child.  As this article explains, this can have serious implications in the case of an adult child who becomes incapacitated for any reason — illness or accident — even of a temporary nature.  Well planned parents and their adult children should consider getting, at a minimum, incapacity planning documents in place, which includes an Appointment of Health Care Representative and Power of Attorney document.