Here’s a journalist’s take on getting (his long put off) estate planning documents in place:
What it was Like to Finally Write My Will, by John Schwartz.
And here’s Mr. Schwartz’s “To Do” list from this piece. Of course, I recommend always having a lawyer prepare your documents!
“Get a will. Really. Dying without one — “intestate” — is a drag for everyone.
Get a lawyer. Unless your life is wonderfully uncomplicated, you’ll want the help of an adviser. Even if you do it yourself, have an attorney look over your work.
Decide on your beneficiaries, and make sure your insurance policies and other investments are in agreement with what your will says.
Name an executor. It’s a tough and thankless job, so get someone with good judgment; this person can be paid out of your estate.
Got young kids? Name a guardian. If not, the courts will appoint one; why not take care of this essential matter ahead of time?
Secure your paperwork. Once the documents are done, put them in a safe place and make sure your relatives know how to find it.
Revisit it every five years. The world changes; your will should, too.”
This is a great starting list, but I also add:
Get Advanced Directives. Have decision makers in place in the event of incapacity.
Put a Trust in Place for Minors. Make sure you protect your children’s inheritance until they are at mature ages.